DEAR DEIDRE: ALTHOUGH my relationship is effectively and actually over, I’m caught dwelling with my ex accomplice, and he or she gained’t take the trace to depart.
Being in the identical flat – her within the bed room and me within the spare room – isn’t good for both of us.
It’s affecting my psychological well being and is stopping me from transferring on.
I’m 45 and he or she’s 43. We have been collectively for ten years earlier than we break up a yr in the past.
It was my flat earlier than we met, and he or she earns rather more than me, so it is sensible for her to be the one to go.
We barely communicate to one another and the entire state of affairs is so miserable.
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I’d like to have the ability to get on with my life and meet another person.
How can I ask her to depart?
DEIDRE SAYS: Many {couples} discover themselves on this state of affairs now, usually for monetary causes. Maybe your ex isn’t discovering this as troublesome as you, or just isn’t conscious how sad you might be.
You want to make it clear to her. My help pack, Standing Up For Your self, ought to assist you to to have this dialog productively.
Provide to assist her discover someplace new.
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