GEMMA Collins took a delicate swipe at ex James Argent as she warned followers find out how to spot “purple flags” in a relationship.
The TV star dished out recommendation to listeners of her new podcast and touched on her troubled relationship with Arg.
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Gemma, who’s now fortunately engaged to Rami Hawash, initially dumped Arg, 34, after he refused rehab to deal with his cocaine habit.
She had caught by him all through his medication and alcohol battle, nevertheless they cut up for good with Gemma ending their eight yr romance in 2020.
Gemma, 41, advised listeners: “Bodily, emotional or psychological abuse is just not acceptable, substance abuse in a relationship is just not acceptable.
“Narcism – for anybody who doesn’t know what that’s, it signifies that any individual is a bit self obsessed, they get illusions of grandeur and principally they’re a nightmare – I’ve been out with many a narcissist honey.”
The ex Towie star then shared painful experiences the place ex companions had lied to her face and insulted her.
She continued: “So I feel the important thing purple flags in a relationship embody extreme jealousy or frequent mendacity.
“I mentioned to somebody as soon as, what did you could have for lunch? ‘Oh I had a tuna sandwich and a can of coke.’
“And he opens his jacket pocket, a receipt falls out, he’s been in KFC for a discount bucket. I get it, all of us like a cheeky discount bucket and we’d not wish to admit to it, but it surely’s nonetheless bizarre.”
She added: “You also needs to be actually cautious of a companion who ceaselessly criticises you or places you down. I’ve had it.
“I genuinely discover generally males do get postpone by a lady’s success … like ‘how can I match your wage?’ I’m not asking you too honey, I’m asking you to like me, rub my ft and make me a cup of tea. I’ve put up with that earlier than.”
Gemma and Arg at the moment are on good phrases and Arg later apologised for lashing out at his ex and calling her names.
In an interview with The Solar, Arg mentioned: “Something destructive I’ve mentioned about anybody I deeply remorse and I apologise for.
“However that row was a very long time in the past and a variety of the time, once you say destructive issues about different individuals, you’re actually saying it your self. It’s self-hatred.”
This yr he unveiled his staggering 14 stone weight reduction after turning his life round, and he’s now in a new relationship with Stella Turian.
